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Ellen Hendriksen

Clinical psychologist Ellen Hendriksen draws on years of helping clients navigate anxiety and self-doubt to reveal the hidden mechanisms that keep us from feeling truly sufficient.

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Cover of How to Be Yourself: Quiet Your Inner Critic and Rise Above Social Anxiety
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How to Be Yourself: Quiet Your Inner Critic and Rise Above Social Anxiety

Do you ever feel like you're constantly performing, even in casual social settings? Many of us navigate life under an invisible spotlight, scrutinizing every word and action, driven by an inner critic and the fear of judgment. This episode explores the subtle yet powerful ways these internal forces create a "performance trap," hindering our ability to truly be ourselves. We unpack the illusion of the "spotlight effect" and the self-defeating cycle of trying too hard to impress. Discover how embracing "imperfect presence" and shifting your focus outward can dismantle this trap, leading to deeper, more authentic connections. This isn't about eliminating anxiety, but about choosing courage over self-consciousness, and reclaiming the freedom of your true self.

19 minOpen edition
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How To Be Enough

You land that promotion, finish a big project, or achieve a long-sought goal, and for a fleeting moment, there's satisfaction. Then, almost immediately, the goalpost shifts. Your mind is already on the next challenge, the next comparison, the next thing you *should* be doing. This constant striving, this feeling that you're always just a little bit short, is a quiet exhaustion many of us carry. We're taught that "more" is always better, but this book reveals how that very pursuit can disconnect us from our inherent value. It’s not about settling for less, but about recognizing the subtle ways we undermine our own contentment, and learning to build a sense of "enough" that isn't dependent on a moving target.

19 minOpen edition
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Clinical psychologist Ellen Hendriksen draws on years of helping clients navigate anxiety and self-doubt to reveal the hidden mechanisms that keep us from feeling truly sufficient.