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Alison Cook

Alison Cook, a clinical psychologist, draws on years of practice to illuminate the subtle ways we invalidate our own emotional experiences and offers a compassionate framework for genuine self-acceptance.

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I Shouldn't Feel This Way

We've all felt it: that quiet, internal voice that judges our deepest, most human responses, telling us we "shouldn't" feel what we're feeling. It's a common experience, a subtle burden many of us carry, often without realizing its true cost. Trying to suppress an emotion is like trying to hold a beach ball underwater; it takes immense energy, and eventually, it will pop back up with even greater force. This episode unpacks the origins of that internal critic, revealing how it silently dictates which feelings are 'acceptable' and which must be hidden. We explore the hidden toll this constant self-invalidation takes, from chronic anxiety to a pervasive sense of disconnection. More importantly, it guides us toward a different path: one where every emotion, even the uncomfortable ones, is seen as a messenger, not an enemy. You'll learn to listen to what your feelings are truly trying to tell you, transforming internal conflict into a source of profound self-understanding and resilience.

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Alison Cook, a clinical psychologist, draws on years of practice to illuminate the subtle ways we invalidate our own emotional experiences and offers a compassionate framework for genuine self-acceptance.