The Opposite of Spoiled
Parents often find themselves in a quiet struggle: how much is too much? We want to give our children everything, but we also dread the entitled glance, the casual dismissal of a gift, or the expectation that money simply appears. This internal conflict often makes us avoid money conversations altogether, or handle them awkwardly, missing a profound opportunity. That moment when a child asks for something expensive, and you feel the internal tug-of-war between saying yes and teaching a lesson, is precisely where this book steps in. Ron Lieber argues that money isn't just a resource; it's a powerful teaching tool for values like patience, generosity, and gratitude. He shows how a simple allowance, divided into "spend, save, give," can become a masterclass in delayed gratification and empathy, shaping children who are grounded, appreciative, and ready for the real world.