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Elizabeth Stokoe

Elizabeth Stokoe, a professor of social interaction, has spent decades meticulously analyzing thousands of real-world conversations, revealing the precise, often unconscious, patterns that govern our every exchange.

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Talk

Every conversation, from a casual greeting to a high-stakes negotiation, operates on a complex, often invisible architecture. We think we're just exchanging words, but beneath the surface lies a sophisticated system of turn-taking, sequencing, and subtle cues that dictate who speaks when, for how long, and what comes next. When these unspoken rules are violated – perhaps by constant interruption or awkward silences – we often feel a sense of unease or misunderstanding, without quite knowing why. We might blame personality, but the real culprit could be a breakdown in the conversational structure itself. This episode reveals the profound power in the pauses, the weight in the phrasing, and the unspoken agreements that shape our shared reality, offering a scientific lens to transform how we connect and communicate.

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Elizabeth Stokoe, a professor of social interaction, has spent decades meticulously analyzing thousands of real-world conversations, revealing the precise, often unconscious, patterns that govern our every exchange.