The Person You Mean To Be
We often tell ourselves we're "good people," and for many, that self-perception feels like a fixed, comfortable identity. But what if that very belief is precisely what keeps us from doing more good in the world? It's a subtle trap: the moment we label ourselves "good," we often stop looking for ways to improve, to challenge our own biases, or to acknowledge our missteps. The book argues that true growth begins when we embrace being "good-ish" – a state of continuous, often uncomfortable, learning. This isn't about settling for less; it's about accepting imperfection and committing to the ongoing work of self-correction. It’s the difference between someone who genuinely believes they're not prejudiced, yet consistently talks over colleagues from different backgrounds, and someone who actively seeks feedback, even when it stings. This episode unpacks why courageous humility, not static self-affirmation, is the real engine of change.