Resurrecting Sex
We're often told that lasting love should feel comfortable, and that passion, if real, will remain spontaneous. But this common belief hides a deeper truth: the most profound intimacy often requires us to step into discomfort. When the initial spark fades, many couples quietly conclude something is broken, or that they've simply fallen out of love. David Schnarch argues that this very friction is the crucible where genuine connection is forged. He shows how our deepest fears and insecurities, when faced rather than avoided, become the raw material for individual growth and a more resilient, conscious desire. This isn't about fixing a problem; it's about transforming the relationship into a powerful engine for personal evolution, leading to a connection far richer than effortless comfort could ever provide.